tough love good for children

Preaching to the choir …

A study from the U.K. says “parenting style more influential than income” for raising kids.

Children brought up according to “tough love” principles are more successful in life, according to a study.

The think tank Demos says a balance of warmth and discipline improved social skills more than an laissez-faire, authoritarian or disengaged upbringing.

It says children aged five with “tough love” parents were twice as likely to show good character capabilities.

Report author Jen Lexmond said: “It is confidence, warmth and consistent discipline that matter most.”

read the article on BBC – Tough love ‘is good for children’

I’m sure my buddy Markos Baikas, Men’s Head Coach of Taiso Gymnastics in Saskatoon, Canada, would agree.

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Marcos’ is a great coaching success story, actually. An immigrant to Canada from Greece, he was chosen Jr. National Coach of his adopted country just a few short years after being recruited by Dana Brass. She met him in a Pizza restaurant.

3 comments ↓

#1 Dana on 11.18.09 at 9:59 am

Actually…….Sher Steele’s sister was working with him at the restaurant and sent him over to meet me at the gym. I hired him on the spot to take over our little boys program from Erin Knuttila who was moving away. This group was a group of the little brothers, which included Jayd Lukenchuk! And the rest is history….

#2 Tracy on 11.19.09 at 7:54 am

I’ll have to show this to Markos. :-)

#3 Randy on 11.19.09 at 1:06 pm

I agree with this article. I have been coaching for over 20 years. Society has gone down hill and I find the families I deal with do not agree with the tough love to develop not just great athletes but great people. I am wondering if women’s competitive gymnastics which demands so much discipline/tough love will slowly fade away as society continues to go down hill.

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